....I may be drinking a glass of red and it may seem as though I'm a tad muddled but I assure you that I have just described my children in a nut shell.
In this
circumstance I had to switch the common qualities of Dragons and Fairy's to fit the picture.
Since Thalia was born there have been moments of "
ahhh just like
Declan used to do :)" but this has been a rare comment. In the last week I have really noticed how much they are such different little personalities with almost opposite qualities.
Now that the Madame has started to crawl around, it had become evident how big the gap of difference is and yet at the same time how grand there love for each other is.
As the title suggests
Declan being the older of the two is
obsessed with dragons along side death knights (and all things WOW thanks to Daddy),
lizards, dinosaurs, trucks, cars and all things manly even to the point of having a imaginary friend that is a Dragon.
Mr Dragon as he is called comes everywhere with us, has his own voice, lives down the bottom of the stairs in our backyard (actually moved houses with us, D
eclan did the honour of giving him the tour of the new house!), he
changes colour every day ....the point is that he is as boyish as it comes yet underneath not
fiery as a dragon but
ohh so gentle (which is such a blessing when having a second child so close!).
Ever since I can remember he does most things in a delicate manner- eating his first finger foods by carefully pinching between thumb and finger (the same class that is shown in a high tea), a neat freak to the
enth degree, running on tip toes, dancing and showing
rhythmic qualities at such an early age, oh and the funniest being his reaction when seeing other babies/toddlers eating their food in a manner by which a Cave man might sit and feast on a
carcass...his pure shock is priceless (memories of sharing meals with his
bestie Austin come to mind..
lol).
He is just
ohh so gentle (don't get me wrong, he has his moments of strife, brutality and mess) and loves his sister always flooding her with kisses and cuddles.
His latest thing to say .."just Thalia mummy!!!" input sad face and shattered voice here is said when he is playing or just woken up and has realised that Thalia is in bed and he can't play with her- Mummy can try to sway this thought with any activity, food, drink,
dvd but all attempts are usually fronted with "just Thalia Mummy!!!"
if you have ever had the
privilege of meeting my gentle prince then you will know that at the first meeting he will cry, cling to a parent, run away, lye on the floor face down and be shy as shy
until about the half hr mark (or sooner if your a good playmate :D)- once he
considers you one of the
accepted ones you will be rewarded with a
friendly greeting on the next meeting...and
perhaps become as obsession for a short time as Uncle Wayne seems to be at the moment.
Then on a very
different level of
madness is our Princess Thalia- The Fiery Fairy
She came to this world very quickly and mummy didn't even have much time to even think about pushing- stubborn little thing from the start and we were not met with a cuddly baby but a screaming
bundle (even so it was love at first sight).
After she had been dressed to the nines and promptly breastfeed and comforted she still didn't see it fit to sleep till a good 6 or so hrs later....don't they tell you newborns are sleepy little things!!!
Thalia from the start does things in her own time and continues too.
As she grew and grew and grew (much bigger baby than the long stick of her brother) she became her own little being and continues to show her true personality.
She is the Cutest of Cute, big blue eyes and white
blonde hair like her brother, loves her dolls and fairy's (although she is very fond of all things boyish) and to any outsider would look the picture of a gentle Fairy/angel from a magical place far away- well she does look the part but I think once you have heard the
shreaks of displeasure, screams, the repeated sounds of that N.O. word, her demands made clear through
speech and sign language, the cry that could break a thousand windows if she put her mind to it ...
you might just realise the reality that your former thought is a big fat mistake.
She is The Drama Queen, Madame of all things food, Mistress of all toys and
Stubborn is her official 3rd name -according to Thalia anyway.
We love her to bits and she also loves her brother- although he does get the serve with her verbal storms
and sometimes gets crawled on and prodded,
torchered and poked similar to that that a b
ird of prey would dish out.
At this point of time it looks as though she will always be the messy one, the leader of
mischief, one to push the
boundaries (not looking forward to teen yrs!!!), the bubbly
extrovert ready for anything and forever a Princess in her
morphed world of
Madness.
She loves the
boobie- has even named them and as D
eclan speaks to Mr Dragon, Thalia has long conversations with the boobies...laughs at them, pokes them so the milk will flow so she can watch it trickle and when she is ready (and only when she is ready) will she latch on and enjoy the bliss that is Mummy Milk.
Thalia's form of Time has extended to how she physically matures.....at just shy of 1 yr she has No teeth (that's right a big 0 in the teeth department), started the teething saga at 3-4months and no signs to tell of the long and painful tale. Only a couple of weeks ago she decided it was the right time to crawl, before that it was just fun to sit back while
Declan fetched the toys for her, sat back while mummy prepared the feasts,
listened to daddy melt over her with joy (his little darling) and enjoy the ride
whether it be by arm, pram, highchair, trolley,lap she soaked it up.
Now that she can crawl
Declan cannot escape her and she is loving it....all in good time mummy!
Just a few days ago she
decided she might try to start tugging on nappies and see how they undo :o...mummy now makes sure she has shorts, all in ones or a sleeping bag at bed to prevent the pooing cot blog from appearing...
ewwwhhhhh
At a first meeting with Thalia you might expect a cheeky laugh, a poke in the eye or mouth (whichever she sees fit), a kiss, an evil chuckle, a big "NO!!!", a snatch at your food or a sly grin- all of which are never shy but in your face in a package of pure prettiness, she has charm but she's a fiery one....
watch out boys, here she comes!!
My children- they are worlds apart and I could type about them for hrs but alas I fear I have lost most of my readers quite a few minutes ago, if you got this far you deserve a medal :D
I love them both dearly, each of them with
exquisite features and wants...how very blessed am I!!!
